QUESTION:
We are planning a “contemporary” service at our church for February 2009. When trying to reach unchurched people with a new service, is it better to give it a different name (e.g., “Lifestream” or “Gathering”) or to just call it “Contemporary Service?” Which would be better marketing for reaching unchurched people?
-Roger :: Oklahoma
ANSWER:
There is no black and white answer.
During the past two decades, it has been popular for churches to avoid bad naming stigmas by not using common and traditional church names that are likely to have hurt or offended people over the years. So many churches replaced denominational affiliations with new, more friendly and “safe” words like community, crossroads, harvest, life, and grace. And as the number of Harvest Community Churches and Crossroads Christian Centers multiplied, there has even been a new surge of fresh names in recent years such as H20 Church and Elevation Church and even some uber-churchy yet cool names such as Kaleo Church and Ecclesia.
Also in recent years, it has become popular for churches to change their terminology to be less churchy and more understandable and “safe” to the unchurched. While there is validity in the pursuit of avoiding words such as apostolic, exegesis, hermeneutics, and liturgy, I think within the context of most churches it is going too far to avoid using words such as service and Sunday school.
To determine what terminology is right for your church, look at your church culture (your brand) and the culture of the people you are trying to reach.
Bias & Stigmas
Overall, I do not think it matters much whether you choose to use the word service, gathering, experience, or lifestream.
- Faithful churchgoers probably care the most because they are more likely to have a dogmatic preference and a dislike for anything but their preference.
- Previously churched people may like the word service if they have fond memories of church, or they may hate the word service if they had a negative experience. Either way, their bias hardwires a preference into their minds.
- True unchurched people, who are completely unfamiliar with church, care the least about terminology. As long as it makes sense and is not too bizarre, true unchurched are likely to be the most accepting of any term.
Marketing Pizzazz
A word like service is a little bland, but it is well known, accepted, and universally understood. Gathering and experience add some trendiness but can also leave some cultures scratching their heads. Lifestream’s primary disadvantage is it requires new people to be educated about what it is. And since a church cannot possibly at every touch point to educate people about lifestream, it is guaranteed to cause confusion, particularly in a growing church.
Cathedrals vs. Contemporary Church
Recently, LifeWay Research discovered that unchurched people prefer cathedral architecture more than contemporary church designs. Why? One respondent stated:
I don’t like modern churches, they seem cold. I like the smell of candles burning, stained-glass windows, [and] an intimacy that’s transcendent.
While architecture is certainly not language, I do think the research offers insights into the unchurched’s preference for warm, intimate places of worship. With that in mind, I would recommend using the word gathering or service.
But ultimately, each church reaches a unique cultural mix. Study yours. Pray about it. And determine which word will be most appealing.
For Discussion:
- What word for “church service” do you think most appeals to the unchurched and why?
- What are some words that other cultures prefer?
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From my experience, both as a dechurched person and with dechurched and unchurched friends, the more straightforward the better. The danger of creative names for me is that they often try to hide that the contemporary service at its heart is still a worship service, just with a different - hopefully more appealing - form. Current generations are hyper-sensitive to marketing and can take a fancy name as dishonest.
I think overwhelmingly clear names are better for trying to reach new people. The name/tagline should say what to expect and who it’s for, and if it takes literally saying “worship for [blank] people” then just do it. Honesty is better marketing than cleverness any day.
Great topic and post.
I think the best way to know what not-yet-believers are thinking is to make sure you’re always deeply connected with friends whom are not-yet-believers.
Doing that would help a lot of well-meaning believers drop the christianese altogether. Then this question isn’t asked because you know the language of the folks you’re called to serve.
For instance, use of the prefix “un-” is in really bad taste to a lot not-yet-believers. When someone unties their shoes or finds something undone, it means that that their shoes were tied or that the thing was done before! Are we implying that people were christians but are somehow now “unchristian” or “unchurched” or “unbelievers”!?!?
Here in Cincy we have 2 mega churches: Vineyard (where “servant evangelism” movement was born) and another Crossroads. Nearly every not-yet-believing pals I know refer to them as “god malls” or in the case of Crossroads, “the death star” because the architecture is cold and modern. Our new IKEA store is more inviting that that building.
These same pals really used to give me a hard time when I would use christianese like “unchurched” or “unchristian” and rightfully so. It’s incredibly derogatory to say those terms loosely without regard for where someone is at.
The language matters, but like Jeremy said, if it’s trendy or cute or clever for its own sake, most folks see right through it. Best to be straight-forward – if it’s a service, call it a service. If it’s celebration, call it that.
Before attempting a direct answer to the question I need to clarify where I’m coming from, it saves confusion later.
I’m English, I’ve lived in the UK for most of my life and the majority of my church experiences are from the UK. The UK is broadly unchurched with no understanding of Christianity and there are an increasing number of people (certainly under 30) who have never experienced church either as a service, a meeting, a wedding or a funeral. We are much further down this road than in the US, where broadly the population is mostly dechurched, meaning that the population have had some experience of church during their life. I think the US is moving more towards the UK situation but isn’t there yet.
Anyway, this does lead me to point one, where I would argue the problem isn’t whether you call your church service/meeting/gathering/celebration a church service/meeting/gathering/celebration. The problem is the word ‘church’. People just don’t get it or know what it refers to. The only reference point to church is what is portrayed in the media. Maybe it’s important to communicate with people what church really is.
Second bit is if you do call your service a ‘celebration’ it had better be celebratory otherwise you’re going to be known for failing to live up to your promises. Call your gathering by a name that describes it best, and stop thinking that what you do has got to appeal to everyone. You can’t do that. Decide that you’re going to go for the market that likes ‘church meetings’ and give them a church meeting, or go for the ‘gathering’ crowd and gather.
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it seems we live in a time in which the name of church can almost be a distraction or a superficial attempt at claiming an identity rather than just living the identity
…oh yeah, i passed this article on to http://www.newchurchreport.com to share with others - thanks!