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QUESTION:

Q+AWhile I love my ministry job and my church, I am becoming increasingly “burned out” and depressed with what I do. Currently our church is having some pretty major financial difficulties, which makes this a good opportunity for me to resign.

I have always felt a unique calling on my life to serve with some sort of humanitarian organization. I see ministries like Feed the Children, Samaritans Purse, Hope for Haiti, Hello Somebody, and Sevenly and I have such a strong desire to do what they are doing. I know that you have very unique ministry, so I am hoping that you could offer me a little bit of advice about how I could begin a new career with an organization like those that I have mentioned.

-  Anonymous

ANSWER:

There are really two questions here:

  1. Should I resign from my current church?
  2. How do I begin a new career with a humanitarian organization?

I answered the first question yesterday. Click here to read it.

#2 :: How do I begin a new career with a humanitarian organization?

First, determine what you want to do and if you need to get paid.
Second, pray about if there is a specific organization you should work for.

The challenge with step 2 is sometimes God gives us a passion and calling to a general area of ministry, but then we add some of our own extra details and assume our ideas are part of God’s calling. For example, a leader of popular nonprofit told me an average job listings might have 100 applicants but 96 of those 100 will say that God called them to work there.

So pray and be pragmatic, too. Here are a few scenarios for landing a job at a great nonprofit.

5 Routes to Get Your Dream Job

  1. Any Task / Volunteer (Easy)
    If you don’t care what you do and can volunteer while bivocationally work elsewhere, then it can be pretty easy to find a role to fit at a progressive humanitarian organization. Contact them and say you’ll do anything – done. If there is a specific organization you’d love to serve, sometimes this is the only route to go in order to get your foot in the door. Be prepared for it not to be glamorous.
    >> I’ve done this before. I shredded a lot of documents.
  2. Any Task / Paid (Moderate)
    If you are willing to do anything but also require a paycheck, things get more challenging. The global economy is hurting and fundraising is down for many nonprofits. The causes that are thriving and/or doing cool things may have over 100 people apply for each job position. It helps if you have friends who work there, a well-known reputation, or some remarkably impressive skill.
    >> I’ve done this before. I did a lot of manual labor.
  3. Specific Role / Volunteer (Moderate)
    What’s your dream job? If you have the skills and competency to do it and can work bivocationally, then approaching an organization by offering to do a specific role for free might just be your ticket to living your dream. When working for free, you can actually sometimes craft a role that never existed before and the organization didn’t even realize they needed. It can be incredibly liberating to be a high level volunteer rather than paid staff – more of what you love, less grunt work, less bureaucracy. It does have its limitations though. Few organizations can successfully assimilate volunteer team members into their organizational rhythm like a paid team member.
    >> I’ve gone this route with several organizations. It is the format I used while at LifeChurch.tv for a couple of years, which gave me a tremendous amount of flexibility to float around and work with 7 different departments.
  4. Specific Role / Paid (Tough)
    Almost always timing is everything with this. To be available to take a dream role exactly when an organization wants that role filled and has the money to pay you is elusive.
    >> I’ve approached organizations and organizations have approached me numerous times, but seldom has the timing been right for both sides.
  5. Start You Own Humanitarian Organization (Tough)
    Successful organizations almost always seem cooler from a distance. The closer your get to the core of an organization, the easier it is to see all of their ugly flaws, blemishes, and failures. Your romanticized ideals of a career in humanitarian work probably doesn’t really exist. It could be impossible, but your best chance for getting close to those ideals may actually be starting your own humanitarian organization. If God calls you to start something, one of the sweetest feelings in the world is being in his will regardless of how challenging that may be. However, if you aren’t called, starting something could be one of the worst chapters of your life. Pray about it.
    >> I have experienced no greater vocational joy or challenge than to pursue God’s leading to start a nonprofit. However, if you do not feel called, there is a good chance you should stay away from such an undertaking.

3 Keys to Starting a New Career

  1. Have the skills that pay the bills.
    Hopefully you started a decade ago reading the books, learning the skills, and getting the experience you’ll need to competively serve a new career. If you don’t have them, start today and go from there.
  2. Cut through the clutter.
    Currently, the U.S. unemployment rate is at 8.5%. Nobody wants the mundane jobs. Causes are cool and among some of the first places people dream about working for. If you seem remotely like everyone else you, are replaceable and boring. How will you impress me? How are you the linchpin I didn’t realize I needed until I met you? Why should I care? Do everything you can to set yourself apart from the other 100 applicants that are boring the HR department.
  3. Follow the Holy Spirit.
    Pray, listen, and follow. Doing otherwise could make you miserable.

Questions to Gauge Your Seriousness

  • How badly do you want a career like this?
  • Would you sacrifice and sell most of your belongings to make it happen?
  • Would you sacrifice your other dreams to have the chance to pursue this one?
  • Do you want to work at one of the organizations you listed because of what they do (and how they do it) or because they are famous?
    Fame is the wrong reason. There are hundreds of nonprofits (often copycats) doing what they do. But the rarity is finding a group that does the “how” well.

If someone came to me offering to work for free, had remarkable skills, took initiative, respected boundaries, and got results, I’d do everything I could to keep that person with my nonprofit. Bringing value along with sincere personal sacrifice is one of the quickest ways to win the heartstrings of a nonprofit founder.

How would you answer Anonymous’ second question? Leave a comment to help him out.

QUESTION:

Q+AWhile I love my ministry job and my church, I am becoming increasingly “burned out” and depressed with what I do. Currently our church is having some pretty major financial difficulties, which makes this a good opportunity for me to resign.

I have always felt a unique calling on my life to serve with some sort of humanitarian organization. I see ministries like Feed the Children, Samaritans Purse, Hope for Haiti, Hello Somebody, and Sevenly and I have such a strong desire to do what they are doing. I know that you have very unique ministry, so I am hoping that you could offer me a little bit of advice about how I could begin a new career with an organization like those that I have mentioned.

-  Anonymous

ANSWER:

There are really two questions here:

  1. Should I resign from my current church?
  2. How do I begin a new career with a humanitarian organization?

I will answer the 1st now and the 2nd tomorrow (click to read it).

#1 :: Should I resign from my current church?

Pray. Pray hard.

Philippians 4:6-7 (ESV)
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

This requires a delicate answer, and no one can truly answer it except for you and the Holy Spirit. Understand that you are not alone. Many ministers feel burned out. Many ministers are depressed. Many nonprofits are having major financial difficulties.

Don’t leave because it is tough (unless God tells you to go).
The pursuit of the Great Commission when done right is never easy. There will be many trials, but we are to be joyful about these challenges because they test our faith and mature us (James 1:2-4).

Don’t leave if the burnout is because of you doing too much (unless God tells you to go).
However, realize that the pursuit of the Great Commission when done right will not produce burn out and depression. Burn out is what happens when you give of yourself more than you fill yourself with the spiritual refreshment of a relationship with God (i.e., personal prayer, Bible study, and worship – not work related). This burnout may be from trying to do too much in your own strength rather than trusting God to show up. This burn out may be caused by you overcomplicating God’s calling for you by adding too many details, tasks, and requirements. If this is the case, cut programs and any of the fluff that is not Biblically essential to your mission, do you best, and trust God to show up.

Leave if the source of the burnout is out of your control (unless God tells you to stay)
Unfortunately, burn out sometimes is caused from abusive relationships from church leadership or from self-destructive management systems. If this is the case and you have tried to mend the relationships or repair the systems to no avail, your effectiveness in ministry may be quenched by leadership above you. Ideally, you leave as soon as possible. However, sometimes God calls people to challenging circumstances like this for a variety of reasons. Be sensitive to the Holy Spirit amidst the frustrations.

Leave if the burnout is because you are called elsewhere
You mention feeling called to serve a humanitarian organization. Is it a passion, a romanticized dream, or a calling? If a calling, is the timing now or in the future? If now, then your burnout may be because you are not supposed to be working at the church. Pray hard about this. If you have to, cut distractions out of your life to heighten your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit.

There are many more possibilities that could be written, but I do not want to distract from the most important thing – pray and follow Gods leading.

You should also check out Anne Jackson’s book Mad Church Disease (ebook).

I will answer the second question tomorrow.

How would you answer this first question? Leave a comment to help Anonymous out.

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QUESTION:
Q+AHow often would you change a church bulletin cover or bulletin look?
- Mark :: South Carolina

ANSWER
It really depends on each church’s resources and the cultures of the church leadership, the congregation, and the people they are called to reach.

Personally, I think bulletins are a waste of money, so I recommend trying to get rid of them altogether or condensing them to 3.5″x7″ cardstock with announcements on one side and contact info/prayer card/visitor card on the other side.

However, for a variety of reasons that is not an option for most churches. Here are some ideas for you to mix and match:

  • Custom Everything Bulletin per Series ($$$$)
    Some churches have gorgeous tri-fold or quad-fold church bulletins designed weekly by designers who win ADDYs. The front cover features a custom graphic that changes with each series. The bulletin layout and dimensions change every few months. Special event graphics inside are custom designed. And each week’s announcements are carefully limited in length and placed to create a look as seamless as a brochure. The cardstock is premium and that value is noticeable to the touch. The visitor card is on an inside perforated flap, and there is a place for notes. Sometimes the church splurges to get a special embossing, spot varnish, or foil stamping on the cover. The printer is the best local shop. This approach while aesthetically marvelous costs about $1 per bulletin printing if ordering gigachurch quantities, and that does not include the cost for the graphic designers and copywriters.
  • Custom Bulletin Template per Series ($$$)
    A more affordable custom approach is to custom design the church bulletin cover for each sermon series and then print the weekly announcements on the inside. The frequency of a designing and printing a new cover design with every sermon series will still be costly, but the bulk printing of the bulletin template will help cut costs. Be aware, however, that bulletin templates can often make the announcements look more awkwardly pieced in than seamlessly stitched.
  • Premade Free Bulletin Template per Series ($$)
    A handful of websites offer free downloadable sermon series graphics. Sometimes these design packages come with bulletin templates. Either way you may very well still have to rework the file to make it work for your church’s needs. This is a great solution for cutting graphic design and printing costs, but the value is really in how you approach it.
  • Pre-printed Paid Bulletin Template ($$)
    While not versatile in customization, pre-printed bulletin templates have been a popular choice among small churches. They streamline production costs and are easy to use. However, be careful; there are a lot of ugly preprinted bulletin templates that do more harm than good.
  • Custom Bulletin Template per Season ($)
    Custom design the church bulletin to reflect your church brand rather than a sermon series, and you can bulk print a year’s worth of bulletin shells at a great rate. Use the money you saved to build a well.
  • Custom Card per Series ($$)
    Most bulletins quickly end up in the garbage, so consider streamlining your announcements into a simple sheet of cardstock front and back. The front can feature the sermon series graphics or a sermon outline, and the back can have the announcements. With a high quality printer and a good paper cutter, you can print these in-house with three 3.5″x7″ bulletins to each page.
  • Custom Card per Year ($)
    Ditch the tri-fold and the sermon series graphics, and use a single sheet of cardstock to list announcements on one side. Use the other side to feature church information, a prayer request card, or a visitor card. You can professionally bulk print a year’s worth of the church information side.
  • Projection Screen Videos ($$)
    Videos take time to create but can be a fast and fun way to make announcements. These can get pricey if too many paid staff members get involved. However, it will still likely be cheaper than most printed solutions. Don’t be boring, cheesy, awkward, or embarrassing. There is an art to good videos. Check out Whitney George and Gary Hornstein’s insights if you want to do church announcement videos well. 
  • Projection Screen Slides ($)
    Photoshop. JPEG. Done.
  • Church Website & Blog (-)
    If you have a good church website, this is incredibly fast, easy, effective (for reaching core members), and low cost.
  • Facebook & Twitter (-)
    The best place to reach people is where they spend their time. 1 in every 7 minutes spent online is spent on Facebook. Use social media. 
  • Lobby Chalkboard Easel (-)
    Find a good calligrapher or fine arts illustrator in your church, and you can have some of the coolest and low cost church announcements around. 
  • Lobby Interchangeable Poster ($)
    Design a large poster for each week’s announcements, print it at Kinko’s, and then place it in a prominent place like where people enter the auditorium.

These are just a few ideas. Mix and match them.

How would you answer this question? Leave a comment to help Mark out.

QUESTION:
Q+AAre the logos on your website copyrighted? We are looking for a logo for the church I attend and found one on the site we really like. Is it something we can use?
- Jaime :: Wisconsin

ANSWER
You may absolutely not use the logos highlighted on Church Relevance’s top church logos list. Here is why:

  1. Copyright Law (indicates authorship/creation)
    The logos are copyrighted and using them is illegal. Copyright gives the creator of an original work certain exclusive rights on the usage of the work. Logo designers have federal copyright as soon as the logo is created. The logo does not need a copyright notice or to be registered.
  2. Trademark Law (indicates origin)
    The logos are trademarked at varying degrees and using them is illegal. A trademark gives its owner exclusive rights to a specific name, symbol, logo, or combination of these items.
  3. It misrepresents you.
    Your logo should communicate one or a few unique qualities about your church. Copying another church’s logo is almost certainly like pursuing another church’s unique calling. There is a good chance you would misrepresent yourself or at least not reach your full branding potential.
  4. It misrepresents the other church.
    If you copy another church’s logo, you dilute their brand by associating your church brand with their logo. It also risks confusion, which may, particularly on the Internet, blend the two churches’ true identities or messages.

Ideally, a church should have its own custom logo. Good custom branding can be a powerful thing.

Of course, legally using a high quality premade logo does not mean your church will fail. In fact, I have seen many successful church sub-ministries share a logo. Oneighty (Tulsa, OK) used to franchise their youth ministry brand (e.g., FL, KS, TN, WI).

The key is to have a high quality logo that reflects your brand and is used with consistency throughout your church communications.

As a disclaimer, I am not an expert so please do not take my opinion or any opinions in the comments as legal advice.

For Discussion:
- Did I miss anything?
- What do you think about using another church’s logo?

QUESTION:
Q+AWhere can I find an extensive list of all Christian denominations and what they believe in?
-Seb :: Australia

ANSWER:
According to Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, there exist roughly 39,000 Christian denominations worldwide in 2008. That is up from 500 Christian denominations in 1800, and the number is expected to grow to 55,000 by 2025.

Currently, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary estimates that a new Christian denomination is formed every 12 hours.

Wikipedia does a great job listing the largest denominations. Religion Facts compares the major denominations. And the Hartford Institute for Religion Research has links to hundreds of official denominational websites.

Here is a mashup of some their data. Since Church Relevance focuses primarily on Protestantism, I will elaborate on that data.

Catholicism - (1,200,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Protestantism - (699,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Eastern Orthodoxy - (260,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Oriental Orthodox Church - (81,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Anglicanism - (77,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Nontrinitarianism - (36,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Nestorianism - (1,000,000 adherents) Click for beliefs.

Obviously, there are significant theological differences between the main branches of Christianity – Catholicism, Protestantism, Eastern Orthodoxy, Oriental Orthodox Church, Anglicanism, Nontrinitarianism, and Nestorianism. In fact, many might argue that some denominations are not Christianity at all.

Keep in mind, there are also significant dogmatic differences among churches within each denomination. For example, I know Charismatic Catholics, and I know Charismatic churches that act like Baptists. I know there is a great deal of diversity in the United Methodist Church. And Presbyterians have been divided on homosexuality issues. The list could go on.

The End of Protestant Denominational Identity?

For Protestant churches, asking “What denomination are you?” seems increasingly irrelevant as more churches own their own unique theological DNA. The real question is:

What does your specific church believe?

Since denominations are losing their consistency, some suggest that multi-site churches are the denominations of the future. What do you think is the future of denominations?

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QUESTION:
Q+AWhat are parents looking for when they visit a church?

My friend says in the past parents were concerned about what a church had to offer their kids and would sacrifice their own interests. He also says today parents are more interested in satisfying their needs.

I don’t know that I agree with this. I see a majority of parents today, more than before, that sacrifice to make sure their kids are taken care of. I think it was true in the past but even truer today.
- James

ANSWER:
There is no black and white answer because there is no universal style of parenting.

Parenting styles vary by culture (i.e., age, race, religion, income, location, education, career, etc.) as well as each parent’s unique personality. It is the infusion of these variables that influence and usually determine each parent’s priorities.

NOT A PRIORITY SHIFT BUT AN INCREASE OF EXPECTATIONS

I believe a greater percentage of parents are looking to find a church that meets both their needs and their kids needs.

I do not think there has been a priority shift. Rather, I believe that parents have increased their expectations.

As technology advances, we become accustomed to having more options and customization, which consequently, causes us to have more expectations. Two centuries ago, parents were likely content to have a church to attend and thrilled if it was the “right” denomination. Obviously, parents have more expectations today.

Parents choosing a church is similar to buying a house. A home buyer may be looking for a home with walk-in closets and a two-car garage, but they may choose a home that is neither because they fall in love with the kitchen.

Some parents want a church that has a great children’s ministry, but they may choose a church because of the congregation’s friendliness or the pastor’s preaching. And other parents may want a church with great small groups, but they may choose a church because the children’s ministry loves their kids and teaches them valuable lessons.

SO WHAT DO PARENTS WANT?

Each parent has their own mix of “wants,” but here is a list of things that every parent seems to like:

  • A children’s ministry that makes their kids feel loved.
  • A children’s ministry and church with good security.
  • A children’s ministry that effectively teaches their kids valuable lessons.
  • A children’s ministry that is fun and “wows” their kids.
  • A friendly church.
  • A church with good preaching.
  • A church with good worship.
  • A church that makes it easy to make friends.
  • A church that offers opportunities to get involved.

For Discussion:
- What do you think parents want in a church?

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QUESTION:
Q+AHow many churches are in the U.S. today?
-Julie :: Canada

ANSWER:
According to the book Beyond Megachurch Myths, there were 320,000 Christian U.S. churches in 2007. Of these U.S. churches, 1,250 were megachurches with an average weekend attendance of 2,000 or more.

 

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QUESTION:
Q+AWe are planning a “contemporary” service at our church for February 2009. When trying to reach unchurched people with a new service, is it better to give it a different name (e.g., “Lifestream” or “Gathering”) or to just call it “Contemporary Service?” Which would be better marketing for reaching unchurched people?
-Roger :: Oklahoma

ANSWER:
There is no black and white answer.

During the past two decades, it has been popular for churches to avoid bad naming stigmas by not using common and traditional church names that are likely to have hurt or offended people over the years. So many churches replaced denominational affiliations with new, more friendly and “safe” words like community, crossroads, harvest, life, and grace. And as the number of Harvest Community Churches and Crossroads Christian Centers multiplied, there has even been a new surge of fresh names in recent years such as H20 Church and Elevation Church and even some uber-churchy yet cool names such as Kaleo Church and Ecclesia.

Also in recent years, it has become popular for churches to change their terminology to be less churchy and more understandable and “safe” to the unchurched. While there is validity in the pursuit of avoiding words such as apostolic, exegesis, hermeneutics, and liturgy, I think within the context of most churches it is going too far to avoid using words such as service and Sunday school.

To determine what terminology is right for your church, look at your church culture (your brand) and the culture of the people you are trying to reach.

Bias & Stigmas

Overall, I do not think it matters much whether you choose to use the word service, gathering, experience, or lifestream.

  • Faithful churchgoers probably care the most because they are more likely to have a dogmatic preference and a dislike for anything but their preference.
  • Previously churched people may like the word service if they have fond memories of church, or they may hate the word service if they had a negative experience. Either way, their bias hardwires a preference into their minds.
  • True unchurched people, who are completely unfamiliar with church, care the least about terminology. As long as it makes sense and is not too bizarre, true unchurched are likely to be the most accepting of any term.

Marketing Pizzazz

A word like service is a little bland, but it is well known, accepted, and universally understood. Gathering and experience add some trendiness but can also leave some cultures scratching their heads. Lifestream’s primary disadvantage is it requires new people to be educated about what it is. And since a church cannot possibly at every touch point to educate people about lifestream, it is guaranteed to cause confusion, particularly in a growing church.

Cathedrals vs. Contemporary Church

Recently, LifeWay Research discovered that unchurched people prefer cathedral architecture more than contemporary church designs. Why? One respondent stated:

I don’t like modern churches, they seem cold. I like the smell of candles burning, stained-glass windows, [and] an intimacy that’s transcendent.

While architecture is certainly not language, I do think the research offers insights into the unchurched’s preference for warm, intimate places of worship. With that in mind, I would recommend using the word gathering or service.

But ultimately, each church reaches a unique cultural mix. Study yours. Pray about it. And determine which word will be most appealing.

For Discussion:
- What word for “church service” do you think most appeals to the unchurched and why?
- What are some words that other cultures prefer?

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