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During May and June of 2008, the Economist Intelligence Unit asked 164 corporate executives from around the world what techniques they have found are most effective at marketing to the millennial generation (the generation born between 1982 and 2001).

How to Reach the Millennial Generation

  • 41% say participate in viral marketing and peer-to-peer recommendation sites
  • 36% say sponsor or advertise in areas of interest to millennials
    (e.g., extreme sports, music venues, chat rooms, social networking sites)
  • 35% say deliver a great product at a great price
  • 30% say focus on millennials’ key influencers
    (e.g., parents, peers)
  • 28% say contribute to social causes that millennials support
  • 21% say contribute to corporate or issue blogs
  • 21% say message millennials through wireless text messaging
  • 19% say exploit contests, promotions, and retail tie-ins
  • 12% say develop online games for company website

In other words, if your church wants to reach the millennial generation, create a great church experience that is remarkable (creates word of mouth) and targets the key influencers and social catalysts of your local millennial community.

Also, show that you care about the things that they care about by sponsoring local events or participating in causes that they are passionate about. Blog about what you do and use text messaging. And be sure that you keep things fresh and fun with occasional special events, games, etc.

For Discussion:
- What techniques have you found are most effective at marketing to the millennial generation?

[via eMarketer]

Do you need a giant Noah’s Ark?

If so, you are in luck because Southgate Church (South Bend, IN) happens to be giving one away. To get a hands-on perspective about Noah’s Ark, their children’s ministry built a 72′ x 24′ x 18′ ark (1/7 scale) this summer while studying about Noah.

When it was finished, the entire church experienced a special Sunday morning service outside by the ark. They even got some press coverage for their efforts.

If your church would like to be the next owner of this incredible ark, email jerrellj [AT] southgate.cc for more information. You would need to arrange the transportation of the ark from South Bend, IN to its new home.

On Friday, September 5th, 2008, Harold Davis passed away at 52 years of age. He spent his life (27 years) doing innovative children’s ministry and training church leaders. His ministry touched hundreds of thousands of people.

To me, Harold was a close friend and a mentor. He taught me valuable ministry lessons. And he was an extraordinary communicator with creative object lessons. He will be missed. A few years ago, we were discussing life philosophies, and he shared this life motto:

I’m not going to wait until I’m retired to start having fun. I’m going to live life now and have fun.

And he did. He always spent extra effort, time, and money to make life fun, particularly for his family. He spent extra effort to make sure that each day counted in his ministry and his personal life.

It is a good reminder that life is fragile, and we must all purpose to make each day count – at home and in ministry. We must all purpose to be the best stewards we can be of our lives by learning to spend some extra effort in everything we do.

A memorial fund has been set up to help his family through this difficult time. A donation link is on the homepage of www.HaroldDavisMinistries.com.

You can also support his family by purchasing one of his many leadership resources or object lessons, including electronic fire Bibles, flash paper, dissolvo paper, no tear paper, slush powder, instant snow, vanishing CD, and change bags.

Never think that church nursery ministry is babysitting. It is actually a great opportunity to minister to and teach the youngest guests of your church.

WHY CHURCH NURSERY MINISTRY MATTERS

Four-month-old babies can recognize emotions in people’s faces according to the Centre for Brain and Cognitive Development. (source) This means a nursery worker’s mood affects the babies.

Nine-month-old babies focus more on an object’s identity when pointed at by someone, and they focus more on an object’s location when reached at by someone, according to the Centre for Brain and Cognitive Development. (source) This means that a nursery worker’s gestures influence how a preverbal infant understands and learns.

Although it is important to realize that your actions as a nursery worker influence babies, it is even more important to understand that babies do not process things the same way that an adult does. For example, adults process color with the left hemisphere of their brains because they use linguistic labels for color. Prelinguistic babies, on the other hand, process color with the right hemisphere of their brains because they see color as it truly exists, independent of linguistics labels. (source & source)

Oddly enough, the language you speak influences what colors you see because linguistic labels determine how you divide the color spectrum, according to MIT.

UNDERSTANDING BABIES

I recommend three resources for learning how to better understand babies and communicate with them.

#1 – Dunstan Baby Language (birth to 3 months)
Dunstan Baby Language teaches you to recognize 5 universal sounds that all babies make from birth to 3-months-old. They communicate hunger (Neh), tiredness (Owh), need to burp (Eh), gas (Eair), and discomfort (Heh).

#2 – The Happiest Baby
The Happiest Baby gives the 5 S’s for keeping a baby comfortable and happy – Swaddle, Sway (bounce), Shh, Side, and Suck. For example, the sound “Shh” comforts a baby because it mimics the sound of the womb.

#3 – Baby Signs
Baby Signs is a proven sign language program for hearing babies that reduces frustration and eases communication.

A GREAT CHURCH NURSERY MINISTRY
A great church nursery ministry strives to understand their babies and meet their needs. And a great nursery should also be teaching their babies mentally stimulating principles like Baby Signs as well as spiritually stimulating principles. For example, a way to teach babies what the Bible is and to love it is to have them hug or kiss their Bible.

For Discussion:
- What tips do you have for a great church nursery ministry?

Jeff Hook is the CEO of Fellowship Technologies, a company specializing in web-based church management software called Fellowship One.

ABOUT FELLOWSHIP TECHNOLOGIES

Year Began: 2004
Active Clients: 850
Staff: 65

Originally, the Fellowship One church management software was developed for Fellowship Church (Grapevine, TX). Now, it is currently used by 32 of the top 100 largest churches in America.

10Q WITH JEFF HOOK

1Q = What is a church management system (CMS)?

At a basic level, church management systems help churches track information about their congregations.

Traditional church management systems were primarily simple databases of attendees/members for tracking addresses and giving records. From that, modern solutions have evolved to be complete “operating platforms” for churches to not only track vital data about the members of the congregation but to also manage processes more efficiently from outreach and assimilation to event registration and check-in to online giving and group management.

As the capabilities of systems broaden, the church is able to use computers to streamline operations much the same as commercial businesses do.

2Q = What are Fellowship One’s most popular features?

The fact that we are Internet-based is a big advantage over the more traditional solutions. This allows church staff to access the information wherever and whenever they need the data using any computer that has a web-browser. As computing becomes even more mobile through devices like the Apple iPhone, this ubiquitous access will help churches provide better service to their congregation members.

Also, because Fellowship Technologies is a Software as a Service (SaaS), all of the technical heavy lifting (such as backups, upgrades, security, etc.) is performed as part of the monthly service by us. This cuts down on the technical resources the church has to hire and manage. Because we are native to the web, true integration from the database to the church’s website is relatively easy and allows the congregation more convenience in conducting church business like managing online giving, registering for a special activity, submitting questions and inquiries, as well as looking for the right small group to join and submitting a volunteer application.

Functionally, the really big draw for us is our best-of-breed check-in system that provides security for children and real time attendance tracking. This gives the staff a jump on following up on who did not attend a service to make sure they know they were missed. That is somewhat the irony – a church should track attendance not necessarily to know who attended, but who was missing; somewhat counter-intuitive. This personal care and interaction makes a big mega-church seem smaller through better customer service and follow-up.

3Q = Are there any downsides to using church management software?

  1. The biggest issue in using a robust church management system is the amount of information that can be tracked is new for some churches. But without that data, the information is not present and, thus, is not beneficial.
  2. We also see a problem in the discipline of churches in keeping their data relevant and complete.

Irrespective of the specific church management system used, a church needs to have a data strategy that helps determine what the minimum amount of information that will be capture and then how it will be maintained.

4Q = Are there any types of churches who do not work well with a church management system?

All churches need some sort of church management system, even if it is manual. In the United States, every church is required to report to the congregation their individual giving for IRS purposes. Computer systems are made to provide such reporting with ease.

5Q = What does the future hold for Fellowship One?

Fellowship One will continue to improve in both its depth and breadth of functionality.

  1. We will soon release the ability for a church to write its own reports. This is a request from a lot of our customers and will help them get information the way they want it when they want it.
  2. We are also rolling out a complete data warehouse and analytics tool for our flagship customers. This will allow church staff to slice and dice information for decision-support purposes over a set of aggregated time-based data. This will allow churches to make better decisions from real operating data. We think this is a first for the church industry.
  3. Finally, we will be releasing a new “Groups” module that will be the foundation for much of the system going forward. This will improve our ability to support small groups, yet also be foundational for website communications, social networking, and curriculum-based learning.

6Q = What are some well-known churches that use Fellowship One?

  1. Community Bible Church (San Antonio, TX)
  2. Fellowship Church (Grapevine, TX)
  3. Granger Community Church (Granger, IN)
  4. Holy Trinity Brompton (London, England)
  5. Lakewood Church (Houston, TX)
  6. Mariners Church (Irvine, CA)
  7. New Birth Missionary Baptist (Decatur, GA)
  8. New Life Church (Colorado Springs, CO)
  9. NewSpring Church (Anderson, SC)
  10. Prestonwood Baptist Church (Plano, TX)
  11. Victory Christian Center (Oklahoma City, OK)
  12. Victory Christian Center (Tulsa, OK)

7Q = What is the Dynamic Church Conference?

The Dynamic Church Conference is our annual user and developer conference where our community of users comes together for education, training and networking with other users.

Last May, we had approximately 371 church staffers come to Frisco, Texas, to learn how to use Fellowship One to its fullest. Besides just Fellowship One training, we try to expand their thinking with speakers who address where they think the church industry is going and how technology will play a role in the future of church.

8Q = In addition to Fellowship One, are there any other resources that you would recommend for churches who want to be better organized and more efficient?

There are so many good resources out there now that a church staffer can almost get overwhelmed with new ideas. I am a real proponent of a church looking at its own congregation data to help determine how best to improve. Too often, a church is trying what works at other churches instead of examining the facts about themselves. This “cookie cutter approach” fails many times and then the staff gets disheartened.

By looking at the “real” data, churches can better gauge how to serve the people within the congregation, such as asking questions like who is the typical customer, what stage of Christian walk are they in, what “services” do they need (family, marriage, health and healing, stewardship, etc.) and how is the church fulfilling those needs? If the church tries to “copy” what worked somewhere else, they may execute the plan well yet miss the mark entirely because the congregational needs are different.

9Q = I believe studying data can give us valuable insights into trends, problems, and success secrets. In all of your years of helping churches process data, are there any insights and ministry lessons that you have learned?

I definitely agree with your supposition concerning data. Two of the biggest issues in churches today are:

  1. A lack of an overall data strategy (what information to collect when and how to keep it complete and relevant)
  2. A lack of repeatable business processes that result in metrics to determine whether progress is being made

Pertaining to the first point, we see so many churches that have many duplicate or incomplete individual records within their database. Thus, when aggregated for reporting purposes, the numbers are really meaningless. It is the old computer adage: garbage in, garbage out. Sadly, many of the churches do not realize that the quality of their data is poor. Defining a strong data strategy and then having the discipline to follow through on execution would go a long way in providing better information.

To the second point, Dr. Peter Drucker, a business guru and management consultant, is attributed with saying that “you cannot improve anything that you do not measure.” Churches are notorious at tracking attendance and offerings and that’s about it. To improve results, more data points within processes need to be tracked and reported so on-going improvement can be achieved. Repeatable business processes that result in metrics will allow churches to better know whether the results of their investments in certain ministries are actually paying off for the congregant.

10Q = What is the best advice you have for church leaders?

The best advice I have for church leaders is to make change happen. Progress requires change and change requires leadership.

Too often, the administrative personnel (administrative assistants and operations) who run churches are comfortable with status quo. The only way churches are going to improve their ability to support the Christian walk of their congregation and thus grow in quality and quantity is to provide better service in meeting the “life” and “spiritual” needs of the people in the community. This has not been the mindset of the church historically, but in my opinion should be more so going forward.

To be successful, this change must be managed; driven even or the efforts will falter. Many times when we fail at change, we go back doing the same things we always have; however, expecting different results. Some people give that as the definition of insanity.

Be sure to check out Church Relevance’s “10Q” category to read previous 10Q interviews.

When it started raining, it did not look good for the 2008 Easter Egg Hunt at The Rock Church (Lynnwood, WA). Fortunately, the children’s ministry director had the innovative idea to move the Easter egg hunt indoors and bury them underneath thousands of packing peanuts. For an extra measure of fun, they added a blower.

Lead Pastor Scott Harris offers this warning to churches who want to host their own packing peanut Easter egg hunts – “The packing peanuts go everywhere, including the HVAC system!” Often the best ideas require more effort.

[UPDATE: A summary of insights from the comments may be found in the post "Autism Children's Ministry Revisted."]

By its very nature, children’s ministry is challenging, but special needs ministry takes the challenge to a whole new level. Any children’s pastor familiar with teaching special needs children understands the importance of developing a unique approach and relationship with each child. It takes a great deal of effort, but it is well worth it when you can effectively connect and minister to a special needs child.

Autistic children are known for avoiding eye contact. And new research from the University of Wisconsin-Madison has identified why.

Autistic children shy from eye contact because they perceive even the most familiar face as an uncomfortable threat.

That is good to know, especially if you minister to autistic children.  It was previously assumed autistic children struggled to process faces because of a malfunction in the brain’s fusiform region. This new research, however, shows that autistic children have “fundamentally normal” fusiforms but try to avoid eye contact because it over-arouses their amygdalas (an area linked to anxiety and mood disorders).

For Discussion:
- What advice do you have for ministering to special needs children?

[via ScienceDaily]

It is always interesting to see what other churches are doing for Easter. One trend is evident this year – more and more churches are moving away from the traditional Easter cantata. I already highlighted what two Tulsa churches did for Easter 2008, but here are three other examples of unconventional Easter events this year.

Granger Community Church (Granger, IN)
Photo Credits: Jeff Petersen & Dustin Maust.

For a sermon illustration, Mark Beeson had the congregation play a giant game of Simon using glow sticks and music by Daft Punk.

Granger Community Church Easter 2008

Granger Community Church Easter 2008

The Rock Church (San Diego, CA)

The Rock Church had their hip-hop ministry, Rock Steady, perform.

Mariners Church (Irvine, CA)
Photo Credits: Mariners Church website.

Easter egg drops have been around for years. I don’t know who first started them, but almost two decades ago, Jim Wideman dropped 17,000 candy eggs from an airplane for his children’s ministry. In recent years, helicopter egg drops have grown in popularity. And this Easter, Mariners Church hosted quite a large Easter egg drop.

Mariners Church Easter Egg Drop 2008

Mariners Church Easter Egg Drop 2008

For Discussion:
- What other unconventional things are churches doing for Easter?